Disappointing Myself

A few weeks ago, Jude and Max were spending the night. We’d watched a movie, I’d given them a bath, and we had a dessert––vanilla ice cream, with M&Ms, and a dollop of peanut butter.   My time with the boys always allows me to slow down and appreciate some of...

The Universe Abhors a Vacuum….

A couple of Sundays ago, I woke up from a dream where both of my mentors––Jack Canfield and Deb Sandella––were speaking to me. Jack’s signature smile was present as I heard him say, “You need to focus.” Deb was there offering me a prescription for Paxil, saying that...

My Needs are Just as Important as Your Needs

I was half a block away from my office where I was meeting a client when I hung up the phone, choking back tears and wondering how I was going to pull it together enough to do a RIM session. One thought was going through my mind, “I am so tired of fixing everything...