The Universe Abhors a Vacuum….

A couple of Sundays ago, I woke up from a dream where both of my mentors––Jack Canfield and Deb Sandella––were speaking to me. Jack’s signature smile was present as I heard him say, “You need to focus.” Deb was there offering me a prescription for Paxil, saying that...

My Needs are Just as Important as Your Needs

I was half a block away from my office where I was meeting a client when I hung up the phone, choking back tears and wondering how I was going to pull it together enough to do a RIM session. One thought was going through my mind, “I am so tired of fixing everything...

Are you a Reactor or Actor?

For years, I was a person who reacted. I’d stuff my concerns about relationships at work and at home in a nice neat little box, only to experience a volcanic explosion when I just couldn’t stuff anything else inside.  It was never a pretty sight. Fear of abandonment...

Dancing at My Edge

On New Year’s Eve Day as I walked my dog, I was wondering how I reclaimed my life and became the star of my own story––this after decades of living supporting roles in stories created for me by parents, husbands, teachers, and even my friends and children. As I walked...