The Universe Abhors a Vacuum….

A couple of Sundays ago, I woke up from a dream where both of my mentors––Jack Canfield and Deb Sandella––were speaking to me. Jack’s signature smile was present as I heard him say, “You need to focus.” Deb was there offering me a prescription for Paxil, saying that...

My Needs are Just as Important as Your Needs

I was half a block away from my office where I was meeting a client when I hung up the phone, choking back tears and wondering how I was going to pull it together enough to do a RIM session. One thought was going through my mind, “I am so tired of fixing everything...

Are you a Reactor or Actor?

For years, I was a person who reacted. I’d stuff my concerns about relationships at work and at home in a nice neat little box, only to experience a volcanic explosion when I just couldn’t stuff anything else inside.  It was never a pretty sight. Fear of abandonment...